I rested doing what it said in the book Tracy give me to tighten my kitty, and was looking so forward to be treaded like a lady by someone who knows how to treat me right, even if he is paying to do so. I laid around in my new sexy underwear trying to get used to having something in my butt crack. The garter belt did dug in a little bit, but it had to keep my hosiery up and looking good. I could wear the crotchless pantyhose, but I think the other looks so much more sexy on me. It will depend on what I decided to wear. I mean a form fitting dress will be much better without anything but stay up hosiery.